Style/charisma is something every one can have but sum are just born with it. You agree?
Well what is style?
To me its the extra spice some people just have. The way you walk and the way you talk.
What comes out of you when you least expect it. You have a way no one else haves.
Makes it special. Im talking about things you cant wear or buy.
When you ask about style people usually hit you with the " yo, thats fresh, nice sneakers" type of line.
Well what style to me is the character. I know this might be "old news" but i dont think people with the real deal style gets enough credit.
For this style i think you need a good sense of knowledge and understanding of yourself the ones next to you.
Being that dude or girl that is always on point with him/her self and finds the way to come trough with out pushing it.
Style is not clothing, style is not something you can prove to another person. Its something inside you.
Its something you just have.
Can you buy style??
Well like i said before its inside you but its in all of us. Some people finds its easy and for some people its hard to get out. Everyone of us has a soul. The hardest part is to find it inside you. Some people write soul. Some people sings soul. Some people dance soul. We search our soul trough the art forms we do.
With the confidence and the extra spice we get with it is the proof people see in us. Its called style.
For sum people buying style means buying a nice car what is proven to get you laid. That type of style
is what most people know. There are just some people who understand about style and figured it out.
But dont get me wrong, money is very well needed when "getting" style.
Get style by traveling, learning and experience. Why do you think usually the old people are more funky and have that style. They have many years behind them and enough courage to do what they really want. And who is holding them back anymore.? :D
What about clothing style.??
Well clothing is something we wear and prove to people more or less what we represent.
For me i respect the people who wear what they really want. Some people really want to wear the same stuff thats pushed in your face not to stand out from the crowd. Some people likes to wear what there feelings take them. Clothing is another way to get confidence with in you and show others something. But inside feelings dont lie. You wear the "sure shot" clothing to a party and you wonder why you end up alone. But after a practice with sum really shitty clothing not showered smelly thing going on, you find someone. Well its not proven that its like that every time but it has happen to all of us i think.
Style with in the Dance??
In the dance its about the same thing. You learn and you practice. You travel and you experience new things with in the dance. You train basics to be able to move and then you train "personal moves" to get noticed. You go back to the start every now and then with new thoughts and ideas. Its a circle.
You train years and then you try to figure out the dance. What it is and what can i do with it.
You figure it out and then you really start to express. You develop a style. It comes inside of you.
There are things like " fashion" that can miss lead you. But every experience is part of it. Good ones and bad ones. You have idols and a legacy to carry on. But in the end you are always alone with the dance.
You and your body decides what you do.
This is just something that popped in my head.
I just see style as a individual greatness that can be reached. Some people might have it more the others but its just to find what you are all about. Then you create a style people look up to.